Okay I guess red just wasn't me. But, are you guys excited for the weekend! I'm sure Rebecca Black is! Especially Friday.. cause I am. And, on the topic of weekends. I like them! And tomorrow me and James are chilling. Because there isn't any school. And I kinda also have something personal I wanna talk to you guys about that my mom talked to me about yesterday, for the first time.
I bet you have a few ideas of what I'm about to say.. So here it goes.
Last night I was just Facebooking my life away and WOOHOO she pops in my room and says,
"Hey hun, I have something I wanna talk to you about"
A million things run through my mind when I hear the word Something and Talk in the same sentence with my parents. I THOUGHT I WAS IN TROUBLE. I mean, I turned off all the lights.. I'm passing my classes..
So I just said,
"Yeah.. sure what?"
Then she says, "So, you and James. You guys have getting pretty serious... how far have you gone with him?"
And yeah, same. I was thinking, you know.. like WHAT DID YOU JUST ASK ME THAT FOR!! I looked at her and said
"Um.. I don't think I wanna talk about this, mom"
" Kayte, I think we should.. It's important I know this stuff. And I want you to be safe. So just tell me, "
I cut her off "Okay, okay I don't want to!""Come on Kaytelynne, Um, make out?"
"..Yes.""Okay, anything else?"
"Like?""Sex? Anything more then make out? "
"Oh my gosh mom! Please, no no no no, nothing more then that! AHHH"(Yes I actually scream sometimes)
"Okay. Well, I know I've never had the talk with you.. and I think it's time. Do you plan on having.. you know, sex with him?"
"Uhh.. Honestly. No, I wanna wait until I'm married. I mean the thought has of course crossed my mind sometimes, but it's especially important to him that he waits too" "Good. I mean, I'm proud of you for taking this road. Because I mean when your in high school and you think your in love with a boy.. And you don't wait, It causes problems.. People don't think it does, but it does Kayte. So if you are sure this is what you want, I am so proud of you for following Gods plan for you. You are really lucky to have a guy like James. Come here" And then she hugged me.. and it was really awesome, (and weird) Having that convo for the first time with my mom. I mean it's weird but ever since me and James broke up for that week and a bit and I was pretty upset, and she was just there for me and we've been even closer ever since.
"So I mean, is this something you want people to know too?"
I was kinda confused and looked at her like I was confused and she said,
" I mean, have you ever thought about getting promise rings? I can take you right now, we can get him one.. if he wants one, you can call him. I mean if you don't want to that's not gonna change any of this.. but do you?"
"Yeah.. sure mom"
" Great. So call James, and just simply tell him you and I had "The Talk" and see if he wants one"
So I called him, he said sure. His parents were thrilled that all of this was happening, we have them and it's soooo pretty! (Well mine is)
And life is just really awesome! Especially the fact tomorrow I don't have to use krutches anymore!! :D Then I just have the wrap thinger for another week and I am no longer a cripple!! Ps- it's dinner now.. thanks for reading.. I'm sure that was awkward.....
Love,
Kaytelynne.
Ps - take this to heart.
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